JeVondair Family/Selenia/Deliberations

JeVondair's Question

I am having difficulty and need advice, player to player. You're an experienced story teller and, in my opinion, a fine player of this game. It kind of reminds me of the old days where Rynn would rely on Kharyn as his sounding board. So please, hear me out.

To me, Selenia feels as though she is in a strange twilight. She feels like everything she's built has come undone. She has resigned herself, she's seen too many friends, vassals, and disciples die. She's had to smuggle her only son out of the country with Gia just to give him a better chance at life. In the past few days, she's not spoken a word to anyone. She's morose, bereft of motivation bc she sees no future for herself. After all, her leadership brought her people to ruin, she failed, she was defeated. I fully expected her to die gloriously defending Xavax one last time, or if she didn't actually die, I was going to pause her if a TO was ever started in Xavax City.

But Messages from the north keep piling up. Redwings asking her what to do, foreign leaders asking her for her influence in controlling her people. On the one hand, as a player, I could step back, keep Sel depressed and quiet and in doing so leave the redwings and the north with the adventure of figuring things out for themselves. I've prepared Selenia to die. She's ready. I'm ready. A new chapter in the East was about to begin: one without her. OR, I could reinvigorate Sel, have her provide the guidance and control that is being requested of her. Rally the nobles left in Xavax for one last push and bring her herself to live in the north in Exile, gather her supporters around herself, and do what she does best...

I could do that, I really could, but for the first time in a long time, I don't know what to do. My first responsibility as Selenia's player has always been to make things fun for the folks who play with me. What should I do? Should I bring her north? Should I let her die? Will the "Redwings," in your opinion, have more fun interpreting what they think she'd want them to do, or would they rather her take the lead again?

I could really use the advice.

– JeVondair

Responses

Out-of-Character from Garas Gabanus (20 hours, 18 minutes ago)

Thanks for the compliment and the feeling is mutual.

You are in a tough situation and I think as a player it'll be tough for me to tell you what to do, but perhaps I can guide you. I had a similar situation when I rejoined like a week ago (not sure if you missed me the last 6 months :p) and I wanted to leave Garas paused and in stead RP the daughter the player of Catherine Chamberlain and myself created (a bit like the Leroux family played their son Goran for quite a while) as it would create some awesome RP opportunities etc and give me as a player a semi-fresh start, but then I heard Catherine had autopaused and the Leroux family had paused Goran as well and well here Garas is. The reason I did that is because I realise I'm a (big) part of why Oligarch is and was fun. Firstly I put in quite a lot of effort also in trying to get allies and stuff done etc and in the realm itself, motivate everyone, plus my somewhat unorthodox military strategies have always worked so far, giving us a fighting chance. I felt like I would let people down if I return and then play as a char who doesn't know much about military strategies + Oligarch is my baby and I hate to see it destroyed. For me those were the reasons to make my (similar) decision.

I think what you have to ask yourself mostly are the following: 1) If you revive Selenia into activity, would you as a player have fun, or would it feel more as a burden? If it'll be more a burden, then people will be gratefull for the effort you put into making their game fun and will respect it and you should go with what does give you more fun and let Selenia die.

2) If you'd consider it fun, you'll have to decide for yourself how much you value the fact that you not only try to make it fun for yourself, but also for others and also look if you can't do an equally great job with a new char as you did with Selenia. If Selenia can provide other people more fun and you value that (main reason for me at least) then you should consider letting her live in exile. A story can always grow and even if Oligarch falls (quite likely at this point) then I can move into a next phase with those who'd enjoy it: (hint: something with revenge) just as your phase would be the rebuild of Xavax prob.

I do know one thing from a personal pov, Sirion is one of the worst realms I've played in and from what I hear it hasn't changed. Hardly any RP, very restrictive decisicion making and information sharing etc. I made Oligarch a Tyranny (with a Prime Minister) and did everything in the opposite way (share everything, discuss everything with all nobles and try to RP quite a bit) as a little bit of sarcasm, but I guess the point was missed. Perhaps if those in Xavax integrate they could make it more fun, or they'll fall into the trap and make their Sirion char the 'mindless' char and focus on other islands. I've seen it happen before, it's one of the reasons Oligarch was founded in the first place. It's a tricky situation, that's for sure as the dream of Xavax will prob fall if you do so (there are already 2 camps right now and some will just integrate into Sirion prob).

Hope this helps. You can spin Selenia's story both ways easily, her people begging her to rebuild it in the north and join them (keeping the dream alive and listening to her people) or dying a heroic death and become a martyr.

– John Reumerman